Did Amor Get What she Deserves?

Written on June 5, 2010 – 10:45 am | by Abigail Abrahams |

I saw a comment in one of my previous blog posts and also read some stuff in the You Magazine where people say Amor got what she deserves for getting involved with a married man.

But did she really?

I don’t get why people say that at all.  Most people enter a relationship with the best of intentions.  Most if not all think they’re in love and that the person is ‘the one’.

We have this one life to live to the best of our abilities.  If love comes around, what are you supposed to do? Say you’ll wait until your next life time?

Personally, I would NEVER get involved with someone who is already married.  In the same breathe, I would also never want to be with someone who leaves his family to be with me.

Actually, someone who did that for me, would be sorely disappointed.  A relationship is difficult enough as it is, but to add the extra pressure of wondering if he would do the same to me, would make it even harder.

Already we would have trust issues…

Now if someone was already divorced or got divorced because they’re unhappy in their own relationship AND they have no expectations of me AND they don’t attempt to start something up with me before their divorce was finalised…that would be another story…

But that’s just me.

Amor and other women like her who were told by someone like Joost that their first marriage was over…

I really can’t judge them.  Actually, I won’t judge them.

Life for them will be tough enough.

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